Comedian Dani Fernandez stops by to talk about ghost-writing jokes for other Twitter accounts, dealing with her immune disorder in the public eye, and how all guys from Orange County where puka shells. Plus a brand-new fill-in-the-blank game brought to you by Loudmouth Golf Apparel, “Nice Pants, Wanna ______?”
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Fresh off dropping ‘Hate Me Now’ Harlem rapper Dave East gets grilled by Angela Yee, Stephanie Santiago and special guest co-hosts Sofi Green and sex toy educator Carly from Romantic Depot BX. They discuss their favorite sex toys, sending Ubers for sex, and towels specially made for squirting. One guest details her experiences with being a swinger and they all discuss what happens when the penis doesn’t cooperate with the brain.
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In this episode of Love Industries we’ll look at the ways in which mobile apps have become an essential part of our search for the next hook-up, true love, and everything in between.
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It’s another wild episode of Lip Service, as transgender porn star Mia Isabella (@THEMiaIsabella) stops by to shed more light on her relationship with Tyga and why she considers the men she dates to be straight. Justina Valentine (@JustinaMusic) and Koffi Singleton of Kofi’s Jello Bar also join the discussion, which touches on dating your fans, having sex with a strap on and Stephanie Santiago’s tip on bleaching your anus.
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Comedian and actor Andrew Santino (“Sin City Saints”, “Mixology”) stops by the couch to talk about his previous episode that never aired, the nuts and bolts of filming a comedy special for TV, and depression in comedy. Plus, watch Andrew rip Josh’s acting skills to shreds as he screens clips of the 2006 cult horror flick ‘Plasterhead’!
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Ralph Sutton, host of the SDR Show and “The Tour Bus” rocks out with Angela Yee, Stephanie Santiago and Gigi Maguire about the differences between black and white strip clubs, only dating women who are bisexual, and the one request he turned down in the bedroom. The ladies discuss their tattoos and why they have certain men’s names tatted (and some removed) and gay male porn being sexy. Stephanie admits feeling a tingle watching these athletic black men together and Ralph gets into a story about blacking out from absinthe. They also discuss age differences in dating and learning from older men as teenagers.
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John & Deb Macuga, the two tortured souls that raised Josh, stop by to talk about their sweet son’s life, from conception to the present. A must-see for anyone who’s ever had parents!
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On the heels of releasing his chart topping album, machine Gun Kelly details some epic nights with Angela Yee, Stephanie Santiago, Gigi Maguire and guest host Lore’l. Just in case a photo leaks of his penis wrapped in paper towels, he lets the ladies now how that happened. And he gives us the (previously) secret meaning of 5DM…
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Love can be very confusing at times! Kaboom! Magazine wants to help you with this crazy little thing called love in the form of our sex/relationship segment entitled “That’s The Way Love Goes.” #TTWLG is where Kaboom! Magazine allows fans and viewers of our exclusive website the chance to have their questions on sex, heartbreak, relationships, and love to be answered by their favorite celebrities/entertainment personalities. Today, Kaboom! fans get lovely advice from model Victorya Ashley. This California bombshell model has literally been around some of the hottest musical acts and clothing brands on the west coast. When she’s not in modeling; Victorya is helping you turn up your nightlife as one of the most sought after VIP hostess in the bay area. Let’s see how Victorya handles issues such as sexual withdrawals, loving a professional athletes, religious living, and many more.
Victorya Ashley Info:
Age: 23
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Hometown: San Francisco, CA
Occupation: Model/Actress/Brand Ambassador/VIP host
Instagram: @VictoryaSecret
Twitter: @VictoryaSecret0
If you could have the career of one person (past or present) who it would have to be…..:
Hmmm that is a tough call. I would have to say it is a tie between Bill Clinton and Judge Judy. Bill Clinton’s life is just awesome, not only is he reported as one of the best presidents fiscally but he also got Monica Lewenski in the oval office (Laughs) and who wouldn’t want to be Judge Judy? She gets to boss people around all day and gets like $25 Million a year to do it. Sounds like a great life to me.
Does true love exist:
Absolutely!
You know you’re in love when….:
You value someone in your life so much that no one else can compare.
Why should someone take your advice on love:
I have had my fair share of relationships, and all my friends always come to me for relationship advice. My cousin and her boo even call me their therapist (Laughs).
Dear Victorya,
This sucks. I haven’t had sex in over 2 months now. I thought part of being newly single would come with fun, ESPECIALLY since I’ve only been with 1 girl, so I was kind of eager for perhaps new sexual experiences. I’m not really looking for a one night stand perhaps, maybe a fling, type of relationship. Just can’t get it. I’m having sex withdrawals. I’ve tried online dating, that was a total flop. I try and meet women at bars, last night I tried talking to a few girls, and that was worse than online dating, I don’t get it, why do women go out, get all dressed up to go out, but don’t want to be bothered? I wasn’t rude in my approach in anyway. I simply introduce myself and tried to spark a conversation and I even offered to buy them a drink. How do I change my approach when it comes to the ladies and get over these sexual withdrawals?
Sincerely,
No Deposits, Just Withdrawals
Dear No Deposits, Just Withdrawals,
Being in a relationship is the only way to guarantee to a regular sex life…the single life can be hard (especially when you are not used to going out and meeting girls). My recommendation is to stop looking so much for sex and find someone that you genuinely like, develop a connection and a sexual relationship will eventually follow. Until then masturbating is always a great option to keep your sexual libido from attacking every hot thing you see walking by (Laughs). As far as approaching girls always use eye contact to choose which girls to talk to, most likely if they are interested they will talk back with their eyes. Good luck man!
Sincerely,
Victorya
Dear Victorya,
Call us high school sweethearts if you want, but I’ve been with my husband for 12 years (4 years BF/GF 8 years married). My husband is a professional football player and like any professional athlete marriages, we do deal with a lot of infidelity and public opinions. I know how lucky I am to be dating a professional athlete and I do know what comes with the territory of them being on the road long periods of time and protecting their public image. I know that my husband has messed around on me a few times before, but I also know that he has never loved any of the people he has done it with it…it’s just sex to him. I’m not trying to paint my husband out to be a terrible person or make this a one-sided relationship, because I’m not perfect either. I’ve been having an affair with a guy I met at church for almost 5 months. There has been no sex, only touching and kissing. I’ve sent several nude photos of myself as well as hundreds of texts stating my affections for him. Today, we had a blowout argument because he wanted more than just an occasional fling and now he’s threatening to “show” my husband the texts and photos I’ve sent him. How do I deal with this?
I’m ready to be honest with everyone’s questions and criticism, so how do I set myself free?
Sincerely,
The Side-Truth
Dear Side-Truth,
Well to begin, I have been in a similar situation and I can tell you that revenge cheating is never the answer. It often leaves you in a situation that is worse off than before. Second off, it is 100% better to hear something directly from that source than from an outside party. With that being said I recommend you sit down and have a conversation with your husband. Explain to him that you were filling a void in the relationship and therefore looked outside your marriage for what was missing. If he loves you he will work with you to fix what made you cheat in the first place, just the same way you did when he faced you with infidelities. At the end of the day you never cheated and friends are perfectly fine to have in a relationship…Hope that helps!
Sincerely,
Victorya
Dear Victorya,
I’m in a gay relationship. My Bf and I have been dating almost 3 years; we no longer sleep together & aren’t living together because of our different religious beliefs. Yet I stay over his place almost every night. A couple days ago, he mentioned something about me leaving clothes at his apt, but I didn’t know if he was encouraging me to do it or angry with me about it. I said “Well what do you expect? I’m literally sleeping over here every night. So some of my clothes will be ending up staying here.” I thought we were basically living together, except not officially due to our religion. I’m really confused because he constantly tells me that we can’t live together because it’s against his religion, only for him to say minutes later “I want to spend every night with you, at either your place or mine.” I know we have religious beliefs, but I’m willing to comprise and have him live with me so we wouldn’t have to keep going back in forth from each other apartment (It could also save both a lot of money.). I don’t want to be living apart in 2 years. Also now with marriage equality legalized in our state, now I really want to make it official with him, because I just feel like he is my soul mate. I even thought of the idea of exploring his religion so we could do things to his liking. When I told him about the idea, He said, “I love you, but I am not going to allow you to change your religious beliefs just to marry me. I’m sorry” He’s okay with living the rest of our lives the way we are living right now, but I don’t really want to do this anymore. Please let me know if I am prolonging the inevitable and keeping a relationship alive that’s already dead? I can’t even believe that I am willing to switch religions for him, but I think I was only doing that for selfish reasons.
Sincerely,
Losing my Religion
Dear Losing my Religion,
A lot of times it is hard for us to see what is directly in front of us because we are blinded my our emotions. From an outside perspective it sounds like you are willing to compromise your religious beliefs and therefore he should be happy and willing to work with you through this process while moving forward in your relationship. Perhaps he is simply not ready for that step and is using your beliefs as an excuse. I recommend offering a final proposal and if he is not willing to move in than you have to move on babes.
Sincerely,
Victorya
Dear Victorya,
Why would my ex message me on facebook to ask how I’ve been doing? It’s been almost a year ever since he broke up with me. Last time we talked was about 3 months ago and he made it very clear that he had no hard feelings towards me, but he put our history behind him and doesn’t want to talk to me ever again. I never cheated on him, actually he left me out of the blue via vocal message after 6 years of a complicated relationship. I respected him and did not contact him and I lived my life trying to move on. I think he has a new girlfriend in his life so why would he contact me? I mean, he message me “Hi how r u? I just wanted to see how you’ve been doing. Take Care”. It was really early in the morning, so I respond 2-3 hours later and said ”Good and you?” and he responded 2-3 hours after that ”Good.” And then I said “That’s good” and then nothing. Was it an attempt to see if i was still attracted to him? Why do exes always come back when you’re finally over them just to mess with your head?
Sincerely,
Doing the Mess Around
Dear Doing the Mess Around,
Ex’s freaking suck! My theory is that they literally sit around and wait for you to have a moment of happiness .. And then contact you just to mess all of that up. Honestly you have already taken the proper steps to move on, so I recommend staying on that path and finding someone who is actually worth your time, love and affection! Anybody who breaks up with someone via voicemail doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship anyway, I mean c’mon now grow some balls (Laughs).
Sincerely,
Victorya
Dear Victorya,
I’m 32 years old and I never been married or even engaged. After hearing some awful stories from some of my married/divorced friends about being with the wrong person I don’t think I’ll ever invest myself into a woman unless I know her interest level in me is above 90%. I don’t want to be miserable like some of my friends who went through a bad marriage or heartbreaking divorce. Thus, my question is…… is it unreasonable for me to demand that the next girl I seriously date should be romantically crazy for me? For some reason I just feel the crazier she is the more and more I want her. Stalking, check my phone all the time, always questions where I’m or where I’ll be…I WANT THE WHOLE “SHE FUCKIN CRAZY!” PACKAGE. I once was in a relationship where the girl felt so-so towards me and it was just awful and depressing. Am I being irrational or unreasonable with this expectation?
Sincerely,
I Dig Crazy
Dear I Dig Crazy,
I don’t think you are alone in the whole “I love crazy women” category…a lot of men have stated the same. And honestly when you’re in a relationship it’s only natural to be a little crazy about eachother. So I would have to say no you are no. Just make sure you can match her crazy, no one wants to go all out and not get anything in return.
Sincerely,
Victorya
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*Be on the lookout for the new Victorya Ashley t-shirt collaboration with Popular Demand. Check it out under “New Arrivals” at www.PopularDemand.com. Also Victorya is featured in the new music video “Every Night” by P-LO & Kool John featuring IAMSU. Directed by Adrian Per.
Photographer: Marco Alexander (@_marcoalexander) Stylist: Allison (@Aleezysteezy)
Makeup: Arbella Yousif (@arbellayousif)
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Turning 30 is tough; high school kids start calling you “sir,” the first rogue grey hairs are sighted, and Ken Burns documentaries become almost irresistibly entertaining. While all of these developments are troubling, a recently published article in Social Psychological & Personality Science about “time period differences in subjective well-being” argues that something else is making America’s 30-somethings miserable. According to the article, people in this age bracket’s subjective well-being (SWB) scores are lower than ever before, and (amongst other factors) the reason for this collective unhappiness is something unexpected: marriage, or more specifically, the lack thereof.
As reported by the article:
While adults over age 30 were once happier than young adults aged 18-29, the two groups did not differ in happiness by the early 2010s, and the positive correlation between age and happiness found in past eras disappeared by the early 2010s. Similarly, the happiness advantage of mature adults over adolescents has dwindled.
The article expounds on the effect of “disappointing” and non-existent romantic relationships on subjective well-being:
Social support and relationships are consistent predictors of SWB (Lyubomirsky, King & Diener, 2005) and most indicators suggest that relationships are now less stable (e.g., lower marriage and birth rates and more people living alone; National Center for Health Statistics, 2014b; U.S. Censure, 2013a). The marriage rate in the United States reached a 93-year low in 2014 (Bedard 2014).
Quite simply, fewer people are getting married in the United States, and this is especially true for people in their 30s. A report from the Pew Research Center shows that in 2012, “one-in-five adults ages 25 and older (about 42 million people) had never been married.” For comparison, the report showed that “only about one-in-10 adults (nine percent) in that age range had never been married” in 1960. And, despite what Al Bundy has shown us, marriage has been proven to increase happiness.
This is not to say that “unrealistic expectations for educational attainment, jobs, [and] material goods” do not make people in their 30s unhappy, too (we were promised hover boards!), but the issue of marriage is the most intriguing because the solution appears to be the least complicated. According to the Pew Research Center, “24 percent of never-married Americans ages 25 to 34 currently live with a partner,” and though nine percent of those couples get married in a year’s time, 62 percent continue living in sin and fending off probing questions about their relationship status from aunts and neighbors.
Maybe 30-somethings would be happier if they made their joint-custody of a Netflix account legitimate and got married? Or maybe, as this Science Daily study indicates, people in long-term relationships are just as happy as married couples? Maybe the question of happiness is so multi-faceted and it’s so damn difficult to isolate control group factors that any study becomes almost moot? Or perhaps Bobby McFerrin had it right?
The more you study the findings from San Diego State’s article, the more confused and dissatisfied you might feel (especially if you’re in your 30s). Still, it seems clear that positive relationships are a major factor in making 30-somethings slightly less miserable. Because once you start finding those grey hairs, it’s nice to have somebody (either officially recognized or not) by your side.
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SPECIAL EPISODES FROM THE MOVEMBER BARBERSHOP ALL MONTH LONG! Join guest Michael Kosta (E!’s “The Comment Section”) and special co-host Raquel Pomplun (Playboy Playmate of the Year 2013) for a hilarious conversation about mo’s, redefining marriage for the modern world, and the strength it takes Josh to keep doing this show. Plus, a special match game for this month, “The Movember Hall of Fame”! All for a VERY worthy cause – the Movember Foundation raises awareness and millions of dollars for men’s health, through the simple process of growing a little food saver. You can donate or join the team at www.moteam.co/between-the-staches – do it today!
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Model Jessenia Vice can do it all sing, act, walk a runway, and apparently give great dating advice. Heres a video for the girls and the guys. We all been to the club and we have seen both guys and girls acting a hot mess or being just plain awkward. In this video I discuss the type of dudes at the club that just make the nightlife awkward and less fun. Ladies, I also share a bonus lesson on how to avoid any creep you might encounter.
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Karen Civil hangs out with Angela Yee, Stephanie Santiago and guest host Lore’l to discuss guys being on point with deleting text messages, getting caught because of social media, going to the strip club on a date, showering before sex, and nicknames for their vaginas.
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SPECIAL EPISODES FROM THE MOVEMBER BARBERSHOP ALL MONTH LONG! Join guest Nick Mundy (Host of ScreenJunkiesPlus’ new talk show “Mundy Night Raw”) and special co-host Rachel Harris (Playboy’s Miss November 2015) for a hilarious conversation about facial hair, that time Nick got married by The Rock, and bedazzled Obama sweatshirts. Plus, a special photo memory game, “The Many Mo’s of Mundy”! All for a VERY worth cause – the Movember Foundation raises awareness and millions of dollars for men’s health, through the simple process of growing a little food saver.
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Amanda Bruce, a nurse who knew that Charlie Sheen was HIV positive, made a surprising confession during her appearance on “The Dr. Oz Show” on Wednesday, November 18. The nurse admitted to dating the actor for 8 months and having unprotected sex during their relationship.
“We were boyfriend girlfriend for a long time,” Amanda told Dr. Oz. While she couldn’t remember how many times she had sex with Charlie, she admitted that she was “there every day.” She also explained that she took pre-exposure prophylaxis before they had sex to lower her risk of HIV infection.
When Dr. Oz said that having sex with Charlie was like playing Russian Roulette, Amanda claimed that it’s different. “I mean, if I had met him on one night, and we had decided to engage in this, I’d say, ‘That’s Russian Roulette,’ ” she said. “The reality is, we had known each other for many months before we engaged in [sexual relations], and we were a couple, I was in love with him.”
Of why she decided to engage in sexual intercourse with the HIV-positive actor, Amanda explained, “We were intimate. We weren’t initially unprotected, but we became unprotected when we decided to be exclusive.” She continued, “When you really love someone you want to get close to them. That was something I wanted to share with him.” Following their split, the two remain close and are no longer sexually active with one another. Amanda also said that she’s HIV negative.
While Amanda doesn’t hold a grudge against Charlie, another ex-girlfriend Bree Olson said after he revealed his HIV positive status on “Today” show, “Charlie, you’re a terrible person. I will never forgive you.” Bree was particularly dismayed by the actor’s decision to not reveal that he’s HIV positive during their relationship.
Though Charlie’s rep previously explained that Charlie was HIV negative when he’s in relationship with Bree, the girl wasn’t satisfied. “It would give me peace of mind for Charlie to say a date [he found out],” she told Inside Edition before saying that his interview on the show was “wishy-washy.”
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By: RANDY DOTINGA (CBS NEWS)
An active sex life is important to couples’ happiness, but they don’t have to go at it like rabbits — those who make love once a week are happiest, a new study suggests.
More frequent sex isn’t a buzzkill for a relationship. It just doesn’t pack the same punch, Canadian researchers report Nov. 18 in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science.
“Our research suggests that couples do not need to aim to engage in sex as frequently as possible but instead aim to maintain a connection with their partner,” said study lead author Amy Muise, a postdoctoral fellow at the University of Toronto Mississauga.
The findings are based on three studies involving more than 30,000 people in all.
At issue: How does sexual frequency affect well-being?
Not surprisingly, the research showed that sex is good, and more sex is better, Muise said. Regularly having sex emerged as even more important to a happy relationship than money was.
But researchers haven’t understood whether there’s a point where more sex stops translating to more happiness, she said.
To gain insight, Muise and her colleagues first looked at results from a survey conducted in the United States every other year between 1989 and 2012. They focused on responses from more than 25,000 people, aged 18 to 89.
Among other things, participants answered questions about sexual frequency (from not at all to four or more times a week) and their perceptions of their happiness.
In a second study, researchers surveyed 335 people online, most of whom were heterosexual. Finally, they analyzed findings from a third study, a 14-year survey of U.S. married heterosexual couples.
Among couples, those who had more sex were happier to a point. The boosts in well-being “leveled off once couples reached a frequency of about once a week,” Muise said. “It wasn’t bad to engage in sex more frequently than once a week. It just wasn’t associated with greater well-being on average.”
The researchers saw no differences in the findings based on gender, age or length of relationship.
However, the findings didn’t prove that frequency of sex affects happiness, since the research wasn’t designed to prove cause-and-effect.
For single people outside committed relationships, however, the results were very different. For them, Muise said, more frequent sex didn’t significantly translate to more happiness.
Perhaps any link between sex and happiness for singles depends on the relationship context or how comfortable people are with sex outside of a relationship, the researchers said.
The study also found that lovemaking once a week was the average frequency among couples.
“Perhaps this is the average since it seems to maximize the benefits for well-being,” Muise said. “It is likely that weekly sex is enough for the average couple to maintain their intimate connection and to feel like they have an active sex life, and this is why we see this as the leveling-off point.”
Russell Smyth, a professor of economics at Australia’s Monash University who studies sexuality, said frequency of sex isn’t the only factor that affects well-being.
His own research has provided evidence to support assumptions that may seem obvious: Couples are happier when sex is better, he said, and “men are more likely to get happiness from the more physical aspects of sex, while women’s happiness is more attached to the emotional aspects.”
Even if that’s all true, why wouldn’t more be better?
“It is like having an ice cream,” Smyth said. “You enjoy your first ice cream. You also enjoy your second ice cream, but by not as much. You might also get some enjoyment from your third one, but even less because you are fuller, concerned about calories and so on.”
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SPECIAL EPISODES FROM THE MOVEMBER BARBERSHOP ALL MONTH LONG! Join guest Becky Robinson (Funny Or Die’s “Dear Becky”) and special co-host Mark Ellis (Schmoes Know) as they talk about dating funny women, bloodsports, and the age of consent. Plus, an all-new role-playing game – “Spin That Stache”! All this hilarity is for a VERY worth cause – the Movember Foundation raises awareness and millions of dollars for men’s health, through the simple process of growing a little food saver.
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Retired porn star turned comedian Alia Janine @thealiajanine got Angela Yee, Stephanie Santiago and Gigi Maguire ready for the holidays as they discussed relationship etiquette. If you’re about to break up with someone and they give you a great gift, do you accept, return it, or stay with him longer? They discuss laughing during sex, what makes a penis ugly, and how to inspect a penis just to make sure there’s nothing weird going on.
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Love can be very confusing at times! Kaboom! Magazine wants to help you with this crazy little thing called love in the form of our sex/relationship segment entitled “That’s The Way Love Goes.” #TTWLG is where Kaboom! Magazine allows fans and viewers of our exclusive website the chance to have their questions on sex, heartbreak, relationships, and love to be answered by their favorite celebrities/entertainment personalities. Today, Kaboom! fans get lovely advice from model/actress Rebecca Ruber. This New Jersey bombshell model has literally been around some of the hottest movies and clothing brands on the east coast. Let’s see how Rebecca handles issues such as sexual withdrawals, love and abuse, religious living, and many more.
Rebecca Ruber Info:
Age: 19
Zodiac Sign: Aries
Hometown: Bergen County, NJ
Occupation: Actress/Model/ Full Time Student
Instagram: @RebeccaRuber
Twitter: @RebeccaRuber
Facebook: Rebecca Ruber
Snapchat: @rebecca_ruber
If you could have the career of one person (past or present) who it would have to be…..: Honestly, I don’t want a career like anyone else. I want my career to be my own.
Does True Love Exist: 100000%
You know you’re in love when….: You put their interest before your own because their happiness is what brings you genuine happiness.
Why should someone take your advice on love: I am very blunt, and I like to tell it like it is. I can read situations pretty well. Love is a big deal, and I want to help people.
Hey Rebecca,
I’ve been with my BF for 1.5 years. He’s very non-expressive, he didn’t even tell me “I love you” for over a year, even though I said it first…. Rarely does anything sweet or thoughtful, is usually just absorbed in work. When I asked where he stood on issues like marriage & living together 1 year in, he said of course he wanted those things with me “eventually.” But he always got, like, combative & angry when I brought up the topics…. One night, after saying he would get married to me eventually but I shouldn’t be pushy, he asked another girl to meet up at a bar at midnight behind my back. Then proceeded to text-flirt with her all the next week, asked her for pics, etc. (He had said we were “broken up” for a few days at the time, which I guess was his defense.) I asked him to be a bit more specific about his timeframe… He ends up saying he doesn’t want to get engaged & married for another 5 years, but it’ll definitely happen for us then. We will be early 30s. I felt hurt, wondering why I wasn’t “good enough” for a ring and why he wanted to just string me along, living with me and having sex with me, for those 5 years. But it turns out… He really doesn’t want to be living with me at all. Originally, both of us thought living together was wrong because of our religion. My BF speaks highly of how his married friends did things the “right way” and refused to live together beforehand. so why did my BF end up asking me to move in with him? He said I felt I forced/pushed him into living together to prove his commitment to me. Which I will admit is probably true. (And before you think my BF is just stringing me along for 5 years for sex, he has gone months refusing to have sex with me because he says it will eventually strengthen our marriage due to our religion, etc… But the chemistry between us is so awesome that he always eventually caves.) He was all, blah blah, he’s moving out. So I said today, “Listen, I’ll move out. You’re right, living together isn’t a good idea, and I should respect that you want your space and time to focus on your work these next few years. We can keep dating, doing fun things together, going to church together, but I won’t just hang around your place all the time anymore. What do you think?” he replied “Sounds good.” Do you think this will strengthen the relationship?
Sincerely,
Proceeding with Caution
Dear Proceeding with Caution,
Wow….this is a lot to take in. Let’s dissect this piece by piece. You have to understand people express their emotions differently. While you seem to be more vocal and affectionate, he seems to be more introverted and to himself about his emotions. While it’s not bad to be that way, you have to think if that’s something you are willing to deal with. It seems like you are running the relationship more than him, and I personally believe a healthy relationship should be run 50% 50%. Both partners should be equally passionate about one another. If anything, the guy should show his emotions a little more because guys tend to not care as much as females. At the same time, I feel like maybe you are pressing the issue of moving in together and getting married very very early into the relationship. Which, is not a bad thing, but clearly his mindset is not the same as you. As I continue to read your dilemma, I am not too sure how I feel about your man. He seems very wishy washy about he wants, and he seems very controlling. He seems to want things to go his way when he wants it to happen, and isn’t willing to compromise. You deserve better than that, especially being the loving and affectionate person you seem to be. I think it’s disgusting how he was flirt texting with that girl after that short period of time being on your break, but I bet if you did that, he would flip out. In conclusion, it seems like you know what you want and he doesn’t. If you want, you could either move out and continue the relationship and HOPE the relationship will get stronger, or you can move on past this relationship and find someone that is willing to compromise and communicate with you better about your future with them. I hope this helps!
XO,
Rebecca
Hello Rebecca,
First, I would like to say that I’ve been a very good guy all my life and my moral standpoint is that I am doing nothing wrong in this situation. I’ve been flirting back and forth with a girl who I have been mutual friends with for years, but she does have a boyfriend. I know you’re thinking right now that I am a hot mess, but I only take things as far as she allows me to take them. If this girl didn’t treat me the same and said stop and I would back off her. I had friends over for Halloween party, and since we were the only ones there not really with anyone, she volunteered to help me with the party. At the end of the night, she ended up staying and helping me clean up alittle bit and we kept drinking. While we we’re at my house having drinks, she did talk about her BF and how he is shy and their relationship slowly growing. Anyway her BF stopped by to give her something and told her good night. While drinking we started watching Narcos on Netflix, which led to things getting a bit touchy feely. We both had our arms over each other, so she held my hand, while with my other hand, I had it on her waist area, and a bit on her bare stomach. If I let go of her hand, she would rest it and hold my lower rib area, stomach area. We never kissed, but basically had dry sex on my couch. So Narcos ends, and as soon it over she says “Well I’m gonna get out here, I had fun.” Now the way she said she was leaving was like nothing that just happened…happened. We have hung out a few times since that night, but it hasn’t come close to what happened that night. Do you think she was being friendly to make sure I had a good night? Or she just playing hard to get? Did I just get friendzone?
Sincerely,
The Gentlemen Hook-Up
Dear The Gentlemen Hook-Up,
I feel like the alcohol definitely boosted her emotions towards you in that night. Plus, the relaxed setting could have caused her actions as well. If you have seen her since, and it hasn’t remotely been the same as that one experience, I would personally forget it ever happened. She has a boyfriend who she clearly doesn’t seem to want to leave, and even if she was interested in you to pursue more, she would have either kissed you that night, or at least definitely hit you up by now about that night and about you guys in general. My conclusion is that she is just a natural flirt, and the alcohol definitely boosted her emotions that night. If you are comfortable, you should still remain friends with her and not look too deep into it.
XO,
Rebecca
Hey Rebecca,
I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now, and it’s safe to say this last year has not been a great year. A lot has happened in our relationship, I had an abortion and I wasn’t in a very good place and had depression, my mood swings we’re pretty bad, so I was someone you didn’t want to be around. My boyfriend is a DJ and its safe to say they get a lot of attention of beautiful girls, I found it very hard at the beginning because there were a couple of occasions where girls would try and talk to him, but I have just recently found out that he was talking and slept with this one girl while me and him were going through our problems, I asked him when I first heard about it if anything happened between him and this girl, but he said No and that she was just a groupie, he lied. I am very hurt and upset about it, but on the other hand I am thinking, that I may have drove him to doing that because it was in the early stages of the relationship. When I was going through my depression, I was very brutal with him. I said things, I physically did things to him, and even with all that he did stick with me. I never want to leave him and friends have told me that he slept with this girl for the past 6 months and not just once. I told him I needed time because he lied to me about it at the beginning, but all he says to me is I need to get over it or finish it because that’s the only way we’re moving forward and build a better relationship. I am so confused about what I should do? If I leave, why do I feel that everything we went through was for nothing? What if I stay? should I forget about this girl because it was at the beginning?
Sincerely,
Ms. Cause & Effect
Dear Ms. Cause & Effect,
I am so sorry to hear about everything that has gone on this year. I just have to words to say about this situation: FORGET HIM! It seems like you are making up “justifiable” reasons as to why he did what he did, when in reality, nothing can justify why someone would cheat on their significant other. For him to have lied to you and to have cheated on you during that time in your life is a completely disgusting and selfish move on his part. If he really cared about you, he would be spending his time trying to make you feel better rather than get in another girl’s pants. Abortion is not an easy thing to go through as well, especially for the female. Clearly he is extremely immature and you deserve someone that will be by your side, LOYALLY, through the thick and thin. If you let him get away with the fact he cheated on you once, you can’t be surprised if you find out he is cheating on you AGAIN at some point.
XO,
Rebecca
Hey Rebecca,
I’m 28 and I’ve dated this girl on and off for 2 years who is the same age. Her family likes me very much, but don’t like that I’m separated from my ex-wife, but not divorced yet and they don’t understand it takes time. Because of morals, they think of our relationship as an insult on their family and even calling their daughter a “mistress.” I’ve even explained to them that I’m staying with my parents and not living with my ex-wife to be. I didn’t think when we first started dating that it was gonna be a big deal, but it has caused us to be on and off a lot. She would play games like the silent treatment or jealous games. The last straw was when her parents wanted to meet my parents and that day I wore the wrong shirt and my GF started to give me the silent treatment I asked her father to talk to her and because he was under influence of alcohol he turns around and says he got to explain to my father that his daughter can’t go out with a married man. So I turn around and explain to her what her father said and walked out. That was 3 months ago, but she refuses to pick up my calls, text, I sent flowers for bday nothing, but she still has on facebook “In A Relationship” with my name attached to it. I have met up with her and I tried to apologized, but all we did was fight. Not everyone in her family hated me, which is also a problem. All this time her nephews would call to say HI! and want me to coach their junior high basketball team. After talking to their mother and expressing that I still love her sister and would like to talk to her I began practicing with their team. My GF was very upset with this as she felt that I’m using her family to stay in her life. I told her that this wasn’t the case at all and I also told her that my divorce is almost final. My divorce just became official, but the same day my divorce was final, she changed her photo on facebook showing a pic of her and another guy. I immediately text her and asked what the fuck is going on? And who is that guy? She text back with a long message talking about how I took too long and I need some time to myself. I just don’t get it, I did everything she asked me to, I treated her family with the up most respect, and now when I get everything done she starts dating someone else?…..Have I been played for fool the entire time and now what do I do about coaching her nephews basketball team?
Sincerely,
Family Decisions
Dear Family Decisions,
WOW. My mind is completely blown. Honestly, I think this situation is a blessing in disguise because not only did you officially end things with someone you weren’t meant to spend the rest of your life with, but also, this situation showed this girls true colors. This girl and her family clearly have some issues, and you definitely should not have to deal with all of that, especially after being in an unhealthy marriage. You did nothing wrong. You did all you could to make this work, but clearly she wasn’t. That whole family situation as well as herself in general seems very sketchy, and at this point you should be happy you no longer have to deal with all that BS. I think you should continue coaching her nephews basketball team until the season’s over because the nephew and the team did nothing wrong to you, so you should be the better person and finish out the season with them.
XO,
Rebecca
Hey Rebecca,
My boyfriend loves to make “jokes” at my expense. He says I’m special ed or ugly, and after seeing my reaction he will insist he is joking. Surely, I am not ugly and I am probably smarter than him, so I give him the benefit of the doubt. However he also calls me out of my name, casually, “jokingly” like “Go get daddy a beer Bitch!” or “You’re my one and only thot”. When I tell him that his words hurt my feelings, joking or not, he says I am overly sensitive and being dramatic. It doesn’t help that he doesn’t compliment me as often as I think a boyfriend should. I’m not looking for any validation from him as I am confident and sure of myself. However after talking to a few friends they’ve stated that I’m not over reacting and that it is a form of bullying and verbal abusive. My friends have never liked my boyfriend so they just might be saying these things just so I can break up with him. No one can judge a relationship from the outside looking in, but I might be fooling myself and just trying to keep my relationship intact. How would you handle this situation?
Sincerely,
Sarcasm or Bullying?
Dear Sarcasm or Bullying?,
YOU NEED TO DROP THIS FOOL. That is ABUSE, 10000%. You don’t deserve any of that BS. It is awesome that you recognize your self-worth on your own, but you don’t need someone who, whether it is intentional or unintentional, continues to put you down. You’ve told him your feelings on the matter before, and yet he continues to do it and says you’re being “over sensitive.” Oh no, honey. You need to get out of that relationship ASAP.
XO,
Rebecca
Hey Rebecca,
I am with my girl for about 4 years now. We have a normal relationship and a normal sex life. Nothing spicy, nothing out of the ordinary. The problem is that I have to wait Vegas business trips in order to exploit my sexual desires. I am all into this kind of stuff . How can I approach my girlfriend into talking about this and most important, into doing this kind of things?
Sincerely,
New Tricks
Dear New Tricks,
You can’t force anyone into doing things like that. You have to both 100% be committed to do those type of things or it just leads to trouble down the road. I know that I would not want my boyfriend to be doing that stuff out in Vegas sooooo… Don’t be surprised if she is not 10000% happy with the conversation you plan on having with her.
XO,
Rebecca
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